As we grow into our skins, we seem to pick up what we need to go the next mile. There are lessons that only time can teach us and no one else! We think we are doing things, busy ourselves with tasks and lists and chores, we think we are creating stuff of life and "DOING" these stuff keeps us busy.

 Well children, if we look at life a bit closer, we might just see that much like our breathing, the heart action that keeps pumping, in fact almost all our vital functions are pretty much in auto mode. There is no us doing (If I had to control my breath and be conscious of it every moment, nothing else would get done!). We in fact are 'BEING DONE" Think again, every thing we thing we do is either done automatically, or is our reaction to another eventful force.

Once we get this, it becomes much easier to just "BE" and let the river of life so full of powerful events and a difinate direction flow through us, making breathing, acting, thinking, and "doing" so much less emotionally stressed! Why? Because feelings are guidelines not traps or holes to get stuck in. Anger is only good if like a lion's roar only jestures and not wreaks hacoc on our blood pressures and nervous system! Tears are wonderfully cleansing, but not when accompanied by days and days of dispaire and hopelessness.